Gary Stephens Jr - Author
Many asked me to share my story.
Many said it inspired them.
Many encouraged me to put it into a book.
So here it is — Until the Wheels Fall Off.
My debut memoir is rooted in one simple truth:
"Sometimes we don't get to choose our struggles, but we do get to choose how we show up when they come."
BOOK SUMMARY
What happens when your vow of “in sickness and in health” becomes your reality?
How do you keep standing when you’ve fought so hard — and still lose it all?
Can loss, grief, and gratitude truly coexist?
A deeply personal story about love, commitment, and what “’til death do us part” really looks like—and how you find a way to live again after facing your deepest pain.
This story will make you cry, laugh, get angry, and feel something real.
As human beings, we all experience some form of pain— the pain of disappointment from family and friends, the pain of job loss or unexpected career changes, the pain of a breakup or divorce, and the pain of losing someone we love.
In this game of life, pain is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it— how we carry it, how we manage it, and ultimately, how we find a way to move forward.
Until the Wheels Fall Off is a deeply personal memoir that reflects on a 29-year relationship and the life built within it. Through a series of real-life moments and reflections, the author reveals what it looks like to move forward after everything has changed — going from a house full of life… to being the only life in that same house.
But this story is more than loss.
It is a story about commitment—what it truly looks like when life doesn’t go as planned, and how showing up for the people you love—and for yourself—requires more than words.
Following an early release to a limited audience, nearly 300 readers have already experienced the book—offering a wide range of perspectives and sharing how deeply the story resonated with them.
Based on that early feedback, readers have connected with themes such as:
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A true love story—one that puts “’til death do us part” to the test, and shows what it looks like to live it all the way through
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Resilience in the face of grief
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Personal accountability and self-reflection
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The realities of caregiving and family responsibility
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The importance of financial awareness and estate planning
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Insight for widows and widowers on what it means to learn how to live again
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Offering a perspective on male vulnerability, while shedding light on women’s health challenges such as endometriosis and infertility
Each chapter offers more than a story— it offers perspective. An opportunity for readers to reflect on their own lives, their own commitments, and how they choose to navigate life’s most difficult moments.
While rooted in personal loss, this memoir reaches beyond it—making the experience relatable even to those whose pain may come from different life experiences.
Because at its core, this is not just a story about losing someone.
It’s a story about how you continue living… after facing your deepest pain.
LIMITED SIGNED FIRST EDITION - WHILE SUPPLIES LAST
From the original 500 hardcover copies printed, only 200 remain.
Each book is personally signed at the time of your order, making this a true first edition collector’s copy.
Once these are sold out, this signed hardcover edition will no longer be available. Hardcovers may be offered again in the future, based on demand, but they will not be part of this original signed run.
After this edition is gone, the book will be available in paperback, ebook, and audiobook formats.
This is your opportunity to own a signed first-edition copy—directly from the author.
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PROFESSIONAL REVIEWS
Until the Wheels Fall Off is the heartbreaking story of one man's struggle to support his wife through her cancer battle.....anyone who has had to contend with grief will find comfort and encouragement in the author's insight
BLUE INK REVIEW
A chronicle of overcoming challenges and moving on, rendered in unsparing and moving prose.
KIRKUS REVIEWS
A moving widower's memoir, Until The Wheels Fall Off is about love, loss, and ongoing commitment.
CLARION REVIEW
EARLY READERS
DENISE H.
"Captivating and brilliant storytelling!! This memoir will have you locked in as soon as you begin reading the first chapter. This book had me in tears and there are so many things you can get out of this book. A MUST READ!"
GARY L.
"This book hit me in a way I wasn't ready for. Gary's story felt like listening to a man open his chest and show what real love, loss, and manhood look likes when life stops playing fair. By the time I finished, I wasn't reading his journey, I was reflecting on my own, and grateful for a story that reminded me what strength, loyalty, and commitment truly mean."
SANDRA C.
Gary's memoir touched my soul. Through these pages, I've learned what true commitment, devotion, and being selfless looks like. You keep pushing through and showing up even when it's not easy. I've learned being a man is not linear, Gary shows men can be vulnerable and strong, unsure and still capable of healing and growing at the same time. After reading this memoir, I am forever changed for the better and I know whoever reads this will be also.
NATALIE R.
Until the Wheels Fall Off touched me in ways I didn't expect - leaving me inspired, reflective, and genuinely moved. From the very first page, I felt like Gary pulled me into his world and made it impossible to put the book down. This memoir isn't just powerful, its unforgettable, and will stay with me long after I turned the last page.
AMIR S.
I told Gary that his story was compelling enough to share with the world. He delivered in this memoir on what I have seen up close and personal. He will be showing us all what dedication and commitment looks like.